Over 40? Divorced? Wondering what’s next?
Your Comeback Starts Here!
Healing. Heartache. Happiness After Divorce.
You don’t need to guess your next step.
In 60 seconds, discover whether you need healing, boundaries, confidence — or you’re truly ready for love again.
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“Your comeback begins the moment you choose yourself.”
— Nichole Banks
What Most Women Discover:
It’s not a motivation problem.
It’s not a timing problem.
It’s a boundaries problem.
That’s where everything shifts.
Boundaries 101:
Coaching Pods
Small group. Real-time transformation.
If you’re done over-giving, over-explaining, and emotionally collapsing around your ex…
This is where you rebuild your backbone.
Inside this small, supportive coaching pod, you’ll learn how to:
✔ Stop people-pleasing
✔ Communicate clearly and calmly
✔ Navigate your ex without spiraling
✔ Date with standards
✔ Trust yourself again
Weekly live coaching. Real scripts. Real support.
Confidence Looks Good on You — $47
Feeling smaller than you used to be?
This 90-minute reset helps you:
• Stop second-guessing
• Reconnect with your voice
• Stand steady in who you are
You don’t need more hype.
You need self-trust.
How to Navigate Heartache, Healing & Love After Divorce
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Your honest, compassionate guide to rebuilding your life after heartbreak.
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Hello, I'M NICHOLE.
-Twice divorced. Deeply happy. Living proof that starting over can be powerful.
I help women 40+ heal their hearts, rebuild confidence, and find love again — without losing themselves this time.
Divorce isn’t the end.
It’s your reset.
Free 30-Day Comeback Plan
Your 30-Day Comeback Plan Starts Here
Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure who you are after divorce?
30-Day Comeback Plan helps you reconnect with your future — one intentional day at a time.
“Tiny steps create big change.”
— Nichole Banks
Inside, you’ll get:
• Daily mindset prompts
• Emotional reset tools
• Confidence-building exercises
• Simple routines that restore your peace
Instant download. No overwhelm. Just one simple step each day.
I Help Women Rebuild After Divorce Through:
Loneliness – Feel whole again.
Boundaries – Protect your peace without guilt.
Dating – Stop repeating patterns.
Confidence – Trust yourself again.
You’re not behind.
You’re rebuilding.
And you don’t have to do it alone.
Wondering what’s next?
🎙️THE NICHOLE BANKS PODCAST
Real talk for women rebuilding after divorce.
Healing. Humor. Hard truths.
New episodes every week.
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What Women Are Saying
Real stories of healing, confidence, and second chances.
“Nichole has this incredible mix of compassion and straight talk that gets results. She helped me process the pain of my divorce, rediscover my worth, and create a vision for my next chapter. I finally feel like the woman I was meant to be.”
— Angela D., 53 | Texas
“Listening to The Nichole Banks Podcast was the first time I didn’t feel alone after my divorce. Her coaching helped me take those baby steps toward loving myself again. Nichole’s like the best friend who tells you the truth — but with a glass of wine in hand.”
— Tara B., 44 | Colorado
“I started coaching with Nichole after hearing her podcast, and wow — she got me. She helped me rediscover my confidence and finally stop second-guessing everything. Now, I’m setting goals, dating again, and actually excited for the future.”
— Melissa R., 51 | Arizona
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