Your Comeback Starts Here
Healing. Heartache. Happiness After Divorce.
Your next chapter starts with clarity — not guesswork.
You’ve been through a lot, girl. The heartbreak. The healing. The late-night overthinking. The “am I ready?” moments.
This quiz cuts through all of that and gives you a clear answer:
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“Your comeback begins the moment you choose yourself.” — Nichole Banks
What you’ll learn in 60 seconds:
Whether you’re emotionally ready for new love
What patterns are still blocking you
Your exact next steps (healing, boundaries, or dating)
A personalized plan for your second act
How to move forward with confidence — not confusion
Find Out If You’re Truly Ready to Love Again After Divorce
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More Abundance
Not just in your bank account — but in your self-worth. You’ll stop giving energy to what drains you and start attracting peace, opportunities, and people who match your value.
More Freedom
Freedom to say no without guilt. Freedom to choose your peace over their chaos. Freedom to wake up excited about your life again.
More Happiness
Not the “pretend I’m fine” kind — the real, quiet, deep joy that comes from knowing you’re exactly where you’re meant to be.
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Reconnect with your dreams, your peace, and the woman you’re becoming.
The 30-day reset every divorced woman needs.
“Not sure how to move forward after divorce? Here are the four struggles I help women overcome — starting with you.”
Because healing after divorce isn’t one-dimensional — and neither are you.
Loneliness
Divorce can feel isolating. I help you reconnect with yourself, rebuild your joy, and feel whole again.
Boundaries
If you’ve spent years putting everyone else first, I show you how to set healthy limits without guilt or fear.
Dating
Modern dating is confusing. I teach you how to date with clarity, confidence, and standards — no more repeating old patterns.
Confidence
Divorce shakes your self-worth. I help you rebuild your identity, trust yourself again, and step into your second act with power.
You're in the right place! I want you to Feel Seen, Heard, and Supported.
I’ve Been There (twice!!) – Now, Let’s Rebuild Together!
Hello, I'M NICHOLE.
— twice divorced, wildly happy, and living proof that your second act can be your best act.
I help women 40+ heal their hearts, rebuild their confidence, and find love again (without losing themselves this time). Through my book, podcast, courses, and coaching, I teach you how to rise stronger, clearer, and more grounded than you’ve ever been.
Because divorce isn’t the end — it’s your reset.
💫 Ready to hear how I went from heartbreak to happiness?
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— Based on the Book That Started It All
How to Navigate Heartache, Healing & Love After Divorce
Turn heartbreak into your comeback story. Learn how to release the pain, rebuild your confidence, and open your heart to love again — starting with yourself.
This mini course includes:
💔 Process your emotions without getting stuck in them
🌿 Reclaim your peace and sense of purpose
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💌 Love Notes from Nichole
Weekly inspo straight to your inbox — mindset boosts, healing tips, and the occasional coffee-fueled pep talk.
Because healing doesn’t happen in one day… but a little encouragement can change everything.
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I believe any woman can rebuild her life after divorce — with confidence, peace, and purpose guiding the way.
Waking up excited about your day, feeling at home in your own skin, and finally trusting your heart again isn’t just a dream. My courses and coaching are designed to show you exactly how to make that your reality — one brave step at a time.
NEW ON THE BLOG
The Awkward Week Before New Year’s… and Why It’s Actually the Start of Your Comeback
“Comebacks don’t begin on January 1st — they start in the quiet moments when you decide you don’t want to stay stuck anymore. This in-between week isn’t wasted time… it’s the beginning of who you’re becoming.”– Nichole Banks
Tune into the Nichole Banks Podcast for free on your favorite podcast platform—available wherever you listen! Or simply click the link here!
Hello Beautiful,
There’s a special kind of weirdness that happens in the week between Christmas and New Year’s.
You know the one.
No one knows what day it is.
We’re living on leftovers and emotional reflection.
Our pajamas have basically become our personality.
And somewhere between gratitude, exhaustion, and “Wait… is it Tuesday?” there’s this quiet question floating around:
“Okay… so now what?”
If you’ve been feeling that too, you are so not alone.
But here’s what most people don’t realize about this week:
It’s not just the end of the year.
It’s the beginning of your comeback.
Why This Week Feels So… Emotional
This strange little pocket of days has a way of shining a tiny flashlight on our hearts.
It makes us think about…
• what changed
• what hurt
• what didn’t go as planned
• and what we secretly still hope for
And if you’re healing after heartbreak or divorce?
Whew. This week can hit different.
Memories pop up. Comparisons sneak in. Loneliness sometimes knocks louder than it should. And even if you’re surrounded by love, there can still be a quiet ache no one sees.
But here’s the truth:
Feeling emotional doesn’t mean you’re weak.
It means you’re human.
And it means your heart still cares about becoming.
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Comebacks Don’t Start on January 1st
Can we be honest for a minute?
Most “new year, new me” hype is loud… sparkly… and exhausting.
True comebacks rarely show up with glitter and confetti.
They don’t start with rigid resolutions and pressure.
They begin quietly.
They start in these in-between moments…
When you’re tired.
When you’re honest with yourself.
When you whisper, “I don’t want to stay stuck anymore.”
My own comeback didn’t begin in a motivational surge.
It began in a season of tears, confusion, and courage I could only access one tiny step at a time.
And that’s exactly why I created something I wish I had sooner.
If you need more support or want to dive deeper into these topics, check out my latest course, How to Navigate Heartache, Healing & Love After Divorce, or join my community in How to Navigate Facebook group. And don’t forget to grab your copy of my upcoming book (details coming soon)! You’ve got this, and I’m here to help you every step of the way.
Why I Created the 30-Day Comeback Plan
I didn’t want another harsh reset.
I didn’t want shame-based motivation.
I didn’t want pressure.
I needed:
❤️ permission to be human
❤️ guidance without overwhelm
❤️ hope without pretending
❤️ structure without suffocation
❤️ and small, loving steps back to myself
So I built the 30-Day Comeback Plan — a gentle, realistic, beautifully supportive way to feel grounded again.
Not perfect.
Not “fixed.”
Just coming back to yourself in a soft, powerful, deeply human way.
This isn’t about doing more.
It’s about feeling again.
Breathing again.
Choosing yourself again.
Who It’s For
This comeback plan is for the woman who says:
“I haven’t felt like myself lately.”
“I’m tired of surviving. I want to live again.”
“I don’t want overwhelm. I want direction.”
“I still believe in me… even if it’s faint.”
If any of those made your heart nod?
Then girl… it was made for you.
You don’t need to be ready.
You just need to be willing.
What It Helps You Do
Think of it as your emotional reset — the gentle version.
It helps you:
✨ calm the chaos in your mind
✨ reconnect with your heart
✨ rebuild self-trust and confidence
✨ feel more grounded and steady
✨ remember who you were… and who you’re becoming
By the end?
You’re not just functioning again.
You’re glowing differently.
You carry yourself with softness and strength.
You feel like you again.
This Week Isn’t Empty. It’s Powerful.
So instead of treating this week like wasted space…
What if you treated it like a beginning?
This isn’t the awkward pause before life resumes.
This is your starting line.
This week is where you:
breathe
reflect
listen
heal
and choose your comeback with intention
Tenderly.
Bravely.
Beautifully.
Ready for Your Comeback?
If your soul is whispering “I’m ready.”
I want you to lean into that.
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30 days of gentle structure + daily wins to help you feel better fast.
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Start with me. One small step at a time.
No rush. No panic. No pressure.
Just love.
Direction.
And the deeply beautiful process of coming back home to yourself.
And One More Beautiful Thing…
Because if you’re healing after divorce or heartbreak — I wrote something just for you.
My brand-new book
How to Navigate Heartache, Healing & Love After Divorce
goes LIVE January 6th! 🎉
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Start your healing comeback today.
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It’s honest.
It’s hopeful.
It’s full of compassion, humor, and real talk about rebuilding your life, your heart, and your joy.
Have you grabbed your copy yet?
If not… now is the perfect time.
Final Reminder, Sweet Friend
You’re not behind.
You’re not broken.
You’re not late.
You are becoming.
And this?
This in-between week?
It isn’t the end of your year.
It’s the beginning of your comeback story.
Dare to begin. 💜
Nichole xx
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Website: nicholebanks.com
With love and strength,
Nichole Banks
Divorce Coach & Host of The Nichole Banks Podcast
Dare to begin your journey to healing, happiness, and new beginnings. ✨
Host of The Nichole Banks Podcast
Creator of the Boundaries 101 Course
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What Women Are Saying
Real stories of healing, confidence, and second chances.
“Nichole has this incredible mix of compassion and straight talk that gets results. She helped me process the pain of my divorce, rediscover my worth, and create a vision for my next chapter. I finally feel like the woman I was meant to be.”
— Angela D., 53 | Texas
“Listening to The Nichole Banks Podcast was the first time I didn’t feel alone after my divorce. Her coaching helped me take those baby steps toward loving myself again. Nichole’s like the best friend who tells you the truth — but with a glass of wine in hand.”
— Tara B., 44 | Colorado
“I started coaching with Nichole after hearing her podcast, and wow — she got me. She helped me rediscover my confidence and finally stop second-guessing everything. Now, I’m setting goals, dating again, and actually excited for the future.”
— Melissa R., 51 | Arizona
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