The Banks Blog

If You’re Wondering Whether You Made the Right Decision—Read This

Second-guessing your divorce decision doesn’t mean you made the wrong choice—it means you’re healing. This honest, reassuring post explores why doubt is normal after divorce, how selective memory can ... ...more

Choices ,Self Improvement Boundaries Self Love HealingHeartache &Change

January 24, 2026•5 min read

Why Do I Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men?

Why do emotionally unavailable men feel so familiar? This raw, relatable blog explores dating patterns after divorce and how to choose healthier love. ...more

Choices ,Self Improvement Boundaries Self Love HealingHeartache &Change

January 19, 2026•6 min read

Lonely, Lost, and Low-Key Livid: The Emotions No One Warns You About After Divorce

Lonely, Lost, and Angry After Divorce? You’re Not Broken — You’re Healing ...more

Choices ,Self Improvement Boundaries Style Self Love HealingHeartache Closure Jealousy &Change

January 16, 2026•5 min read

I Am Healing (Even When It Doesn’t Look Like It)

A raw, relatable look at healing after divorce for women over 40—covering grief, self-trust, boundaries, and choosing peace in your next chapter. ...more

Choices ,Self Improvement Boundaries Cheating Self Love HealingHeartache Divorce Dating &Change

January 09, 2026•7 min read

The Awkward Week Before New Year’s… and Why It’s Actually the Start of Your Comeback

Feeling lost in the week between Christmas and New Year’s? Discover why this “awkward week” is actually the start of your comeback — and how to begin healing. ...more

Choices ,Self Improvement Boundaries Cheating Self Love HealingHeartache Divorce Dating &Change

December 30, 2025•6 min read

It Aches in Places No One Sees

A quiet, honest look at the emotional aftermath of divorce—and why lingering pain doesn’t mean you’re failing. Healing happens in layers, not leaps. ...more

Choices ,Self Improvement Boundaries Cheating Self Love HealingHeartache Divorce Dating &Change

December 22, 2025•7 min read

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