The Nichole Banks Blog: Healing, Heartache & New Beginnings
I Am Healing (Even When It Doesn’t Look Like It)
A raw, relatable look at healing after divorce for women over 40—covering grief, self-trust, boundaries, and choosing peace in your next chapter. ...more
Choices ,Self Improvement Boundaries Cheating Self Love HealingHeartache Divorce Dating &Change
January 09, 2026•7 min read
You Don’t Need a New Year — You Need a Soft Reset
Feeling overwhelmed in January after divorce? Learn why you don’t need a new year — you need a soft reset. Gentle healing, steady confidence, and emotional clarity start here. ...more
Self Improvement ,Boundaries Self Love HealingHeartache Divorce Dating Change &Holidays
January 08, 2026•5 min read
The Quiet After the Holidays Is Louder Than the Divorce
January can feel heavier than the divorce itself. When the holidays end and the quiet sets in, many divorced women are left wondering why everything suddenly feels louder inside. ...more
Self Improvement ,Boundaries Self Love HealingHeartache Divorce Dating Change &Holidays
January 02, 2026•6 min read
The Awkward Week Before New Year’s… and Why It’s Actually the Start of Your Comeback
Feeling lost in the week between Christmas and New Year’s? Discover why this “awkward week” is actually the start of your comeback — and how to begin healing. ...more
Choices ,Self Improvement Boundaries Cheating Self Love HealingHeartache Divorce Dating &Change
December 30, 2025•6 min read
It Aches in Places No One Sees
A quiet, honest look at the emotional aftermath of divorce—and why lingering pain doesn’t mean you’re failing. Healing happens in layers, not leaps. ...more
Choices ,Self Improvement Boundaries Cheating Self Love HealingHeartache Divorce Dating &Change
December 22, 2025•7 min read
6 Steps to Feeling Like Yourself Again After Divorce
Feeling lost after divorce? This heartfelt guide walks you through six simple, powerful steps to reconnect with who you are, rebuild your confidence, and begin your second act with clarity and hope. I... ...more
Choices ,Self Improvement Boundaries Cheating Self Love HealingHeartache Divorce Dating &Change
December 11, 2025•7 min read
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