Your Comeback Starts Here
Healing. Heartache. Happiness After Divorce.
Your next chapter starts with clarity — not guesswork.
You’ve been through a lot, girl. The heartbreak. The healing. The late-night overthinking. The “am I ready?” moments.
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“Your comeback begins the moment you choose yourself.” — Nichole Banks
What you’ll learn in 60 seconds:
Whether you’re emotionally ready for new love
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How to Navigate Heartache, Healing & Love After Divorce
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Your honest, compassionate guide to rebuilding your life after heartbreak.
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Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure who you are after divorce?
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This isn’t busywork.
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“Not sure how to move forward after divorce? Here are the four struggles I help women overcome — starting with you.”
Because healing after divorce isn’t one-dimensional — and neither are you.
Loneliness
Divorce can feel isolating. I help you reconnect with yourself, rebuild your joy, and feel whole again.
Boundaries
If you’ve spent years putting everyone else first, I show you how to set healthy limits without guilt or fear.
Dating
Modern dating is confusing. I teach you how to date with clarity, confidence, and standards — no more repeating old patterns.
Confidence
Divorce shakes your self-worth. I help you rebuild your identity, trust yourself again, and step into your second act with power.
You're in the right place! I want you to Feel Seen, Heard, and Supported.
I’ve Been There (twice!!) – Now, Let’s Rebuild Together!
Hello, I'M NICHOLE.
— twice divorced, wildly happy, and living proof that your second act can be your best act.
I help women 40+ heal their hearts, rebuild their confidence, and find love again (without losing themselves this time). Through my book, podcast, courses, and coaching, I teach you how to rise stronger, clearer, and more grounded than you’ve ever been.
Because divorce isn’t the end — it’s your reset.
💫 Ready to hear how I went from heartbreak to happiness?
Boundaries 101: Protect Your Time, Energy & Relationships
Your comeback begins with clarity.
You’ve spent years bending, stretching, explaining, apologizing, and over-functioning. That ends here.
This course includes:
stop people-pleasing
communicate your needs clearly and calmly
protect your energy from draining relationships
navigate your ex without emotional collapse
date with confidence and standards
trust yourself again
Boundary Mapping Workbook
Real-Life Scripts & Scenarios for Difficult Conversations
Guided Visualization: The Confident “No”
When you master boundaries, you master your life.
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How to Navigate Heartache, Healing & Love After Divorce
Your healing roadmap — from heartbreak to hope.
This powerful program is your first step after divorce. If you feel lost, stuck, overwhelmed, lonely, embarrassed, angry, or unsure what comes next… this course will become your lifeline.
You’ll learn how to:
regulate your emotions without spiraling
stop the shame + self-blame cycle
rebuild your identity and confidence
create emotional safety within yourself
process grief in a healthy, empowering way
open your heart again with clarity — not fear
This is the foundation every divorced woman needs.
Love Is in the Air: Navigating Modern Dating After Divorce
Dating doesn’t have to be awful — I promise.
Dating after divorce is a whole new world. Apps, attachment styles, breadcrumbing, ghosting, standards, boundaries… it can feel like chaos.
This course gives you:
dating clarity and confidence
emotional safety tools
red flag vs. green flag decoding
texting + communication scripts
the “Standards, Not Expectations” framework
how to choose emotionally available partners
how to date without losing yourself ever again
If you’ve ever said “I don’t want to repeat my last relationship,” this course is for you.
How to Gain Confidence, that will change your life.
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This mini-course is the perfect add-on for women who feel:
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unsure of who they are now
afraid to be seen again
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disconnected from their own power
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This COURSE includes:
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I believe any woman can rebuild her life after divorce — with confidence, peace, and purpose guiding the way.
Waking up excited about your day, feeling at home in your own skin, and finally trusting your heart again isn’t just a dream. My courses and coaching are designed to show you exactly how to make that your reality — one brave step at a time.
NEW ON THE BLOG
When Loneliness Sneaks In (And What to Do When It Does)
“You’re not lonely because you’re unlovable. You’re lonely because you’re healing in a space you outgrew.” – Nichole Banks
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When Loneliness Sneaks In (And What to Do When It Does)
A raw, relatable, girlfriend-to-girlfriend guide to feeling less alone—even in your second act.
Girl… loneliness has this magical ability to creep in at the most inconvenient times—like when you’re finally feeling proud of yourself for keeping a succulent alive, or when you’ve convinced yourself you’re totally fine watching Netflix alone on a Saturday night.
And then suddenly… BAM.
The silence gets loud.
The ache hits.
And you start wondering if this is just how life is now.
Spoiler alert: it’s not.
Loneliness is a visitor—not a permanent roommate—and today, we’re going to walk through some real, grounded ways to soften it, shake it off, and reclaim your spark again.
Pull up a cozy blanket, girl… let’s talk.
1. Connect with Nature 🌱
There’s something almost magical about fresh air.
A walk, a garden nursery stroll, a moment under the sun—you don’t need hiking boots and a motivational playlist. Just step outside and breathe. Nature grounds you when your emotions feel loud.
2. Build a Support Network 🤝
Listen… you don’t win prizes for doing life alone.
Text a friend. Call your sister. Join a divorce support group.
Even a five-minute “hey, just checking in” can cut loneliness in half.
Connection changes everything.
3. Dive Into a Hobby 🎨
Loneliness gets quiet when your hands (and mind) get busy.
Paint. Cook. Redecorate. Take up a niche hobby no one saw coming—like adult coloring books or pottery shaped suspiciously like wine cups.
Find joy in the things that feel good to you.
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4. Try Mindfulness (The Non-Woo-Woo Version) 🧘♀️
No crystals required, girl.
Just slow your breath. Name what you’re feeling. Sit with it instead of fighting it.
Mindfulness isn’t magic—it’s self-awareness with a little kindness sprinkled on top.
5. Volunteer Your Time ❤️
If loneliness is heavy, service is the lift.
Doing something for someone else reminds you you’re capable, needed, and powerful—even on the days you feel wobbly.
6. Create a Daily Routine 📅
Routine is soothing when life feels unsteady.
It gives your days structure—and structure brings emotional safety.
Start tiny. A morning ritual. A midday walk. A bedtime wind-down that doesn't involve doom-scrolling.
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7. Limit Social Media 📱
Look, curated Instagram couples can make anyone feel like they’re falling behind in life.
Balance your scroll time with real-life connection.
Instagram isn’t reality—it’s Photoshop holding hands with delusion.
8. Learn Something New 📚
You want a confidence booster? Watch yourself grow.
Take a class, try a new skill, pick up something random just because.
Learning keeps your mind engaged and expands your world.
Loneliness doesn’t mean you’re failing. It means you’re human, rebuilding, and becoming someone stronger than you were before.
You’re not behind.
You’re not forgotten.
You’re becoming the woman who’s going to look back and say, “Damn… I really did that.”
And until that day?
Come sit with me on the podcast. You don’t have to walk through this part alone.
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Dare to begin, girl.
Your holiday, your rules.
Nichole 💛
Divorce Coach & Host of The Nichole Banks Podcast
✨ Creator of the Boundaries 101 Course
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What Women Are Saying
Real stories of healing, confidence, and second chances.
“Nichole has this incredible mix of compassion and straight talk that gets results. She helped me process the pain of my divorce, rediscover my worth, and create a vision for my next chapter. I finally feel like the woman I was meant to be.”
— Angela D., 53 | Texas
“Listening to The Nichole Banks Podcast was the first time I didn’t feel alone after my divorce. Her coaching helped me take those baby steps toward loving myself again. Nichole’s like the best friend who tells you the truth — but with a glass of wine in hand.”
— Tara B., 44 | Colorado
“I started coaching with Nichole after hearing her podcast, and wow — she got me. She helped me rediscover my confidence and finally stop second-guessing everything. Now, I’m setting goals, dating again, and actually excited for the future.”
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Real talk for women ready to heal, rebuild, and rise after divorce. Expect laughter, inspiration, and those “oh-my-gosh-that’s-me” moments every week.
