Your Comeback Starts Here
Healing. Heartache. Happiness After Divorce.
Your next chapter starts with clarity — not guesswork.
You’ve been through a lot, girl. The heartbreak. The healing. The late-night overthinking. The “am I ready?” moments.
This quiz cuts through all of that and gives you a clear answer:
Where is your heart right now — and what should your next step be?
👉 Take the Quiz (Free)
“Your comeback begins the moment you choose yourself.” — Nichole Banks
What you’ll learn in 60 seconds:
Whether you’re emotionally ready for new love
What patterns are still blocking you
Your exact next steps (healing, boundaries, or dating)
A personalized plan for your second act
How to move forward with confidence — not confusion
Find Out If You’re Truly Ready to Love Again After Divorce
Instant results. Zero pressure. Just clarity.
More Abundance
Not just in your bank account — but in your self-worth. You’ll stop giving energy to what drains you and start attracting peace, opportunities, and people who match your value.
More Freedom
Freedom to say no without guilt. Freedom to choose your peace over their chaos. Freedom to wake up excited about your life again.
More Happiness
Not the “pretend I’m fine” kind — the real, quiet, deep joy that comes from knowing you’re exactly where you’re meant to be.
How to Navigate Heartache, Healing & Love After Divorce
Available January 6, 2026
Your honest, compassionate guide to rebuilding your life after heartbreak.
Kindle, Paperback and Audible
Grab your FREE WORKBOOK
Reconnect with your dreams, your peace, and the woman you’re becoming.
The 30-day reset every divorced woman needs.
“Not sure how to move forward after divorce? Here are the four struggles I help women overcome — starting with you.”
Because healing after divorce isn’t one-dimensional — and neither are you.
Loneliness
Divorce can feel isolating. I help you reconnect with yourself, rebuild your joy, and feel whole again.
Boundaries
If you’ve spent years putting everyone else first, I show you how to set healthy limits without guilt or fear.
Dating
Modern dating is confusing. I teach you how to date with clarity, confidence, and standards — no more repeating old patterns.
Confidence
Divorce shakes your self-worth. I help you rebuild your identity, trust yourself again, and step into your second act with power.
You're in the right place! I want you to Feel Seen, Heard, and Supported.
I’ve Been There (twice!!) – Now, Let’s Rebuild Together!
Hello, I'M NICHOLE.
— twice divorced, wildly happy, and living proof that your second act can be your best act.
I help women 40+ heal their hearts, rebuild their confidence, and find love again (without losing themselves this time). Through my book, podcast, courses, and coaching, I teach you how to rise stronger, clearer, and more grounded than you’ve ever been.
Because divorce isn’t the end — it’s your reset.
💫 Ready to hear how I went from heartbreak to happiness?
Boundaries 101 (Signature Program — Enrollment Opens Soon)
Our signature 8-week program with step-by-step guides Protect your energy, speak your truth, and step into your power.
This course includes:
✨ Step-by-step video lessons to help you set and keep healthy boundaries.
💕 Downloadable workbook and real-life scripts for every tough conversation.
🌷 Energy audit and personal peace plan to protect your time and sanity.
— Based on the Book That Started It All
How to Navigate Heartache, Healing & Love After Divorce
Turn heartbreak into your comeback story. Learn how to release the pain, rebuild your confidence, and open your heart to love again — starting with yourself.
This mini course includes:
💔 Process your emotions without getting stuck in them
🌿 Reclaim your peace and sense of purpose
💞 Open your heart to the possibility of love again
💌 Love Notes from Nichole
Weekly inspo straight to your inbox — mindset boosts, healing tips, and the occasional coffee-fueled pep talk.
Because healing doesn’t happen in one day… but a little encouragement can change everything.
Landing in your inbox every Sunday afternoon — best enjoyed with coffee and quiet time. ☕💖
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I believe any woman can rebuild her life after divorce — with confidence, peace, and purpose guiding the way.
Waking up excited about your day, feeling at home in your own skin, and finally trusting your heart again isn’t just a dream. My courses and coaching are designed to show you exactly how to make that your reality — one brave step at a time.
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What Women Are Saying
Real stories of healing, confidence, and second chances.
“Nichole has this incredible mix of compassion and straight talk that gets results. She helped me process the pain of my divorce, rediscover my worth, and create a vision for my next chapter. I finally feel like the woman I was meant to be.”
— Angela D., 53 | Texas
“Listening to The Nichole Banks Podcast was the first time I didn’t feel alone after my divorce. Her coaching helped me take those baby steps toward loving myself again. Nichole’s like the best friend who tells you the truth — but with a glass of wine in hand.”
— Tara B., 44 | Colorado
“I started coaching with Nichole after hearing her podcast, and wow — she got me. She helped me rediscover my confidence and finally stop second-guessing everything. Now, I’m setting goals, dating again, and actually excited for the future.”
— Melissa R., 51 | Arizona
🎙️THE NICHOLE BANKS PODCAST
Real talk for women ready to heal, rebuild, and rise after divorce. Expect laughter, inspiration, and those “oh-my-gosh-that’s-me” moments every week.
