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Healing Out Loud: Breaking the Silence That Almost Broke You

By: Nichole Banks Published on: 02/10/2025

ilence feels safe after divorce—but it doesn’t heal you. It buries you. And eventually? It breaks you. In this raw and real article, Nichole opens up about the quiet pain of pretending to be “fine,” why we stay silent, and how speaking your truth out loud can be the medicine you didn’t know you needed. Expect messy confessions, sassy girlfriend wisdom, and practical steps to finally let the weight off your chest.

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Who Get's The Friends?

By: Nichole Banks Published on: 26/09/2025

Divorce doesn’t just split assets—it splits friendships, too. From awkward invites to “friend custody,” this post dives into the social fallout no one talks about and how to build a circle that truly feels like home again.

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The Empty Dishwasher Syndrome: Why It’s Not About the Dishes at All

By: Nichole Banks Published on: 11/09/2025

Have you ever opened your dishwasher and stopped in your tracks? One lonely plate. One fork. A single wine glass winking at you from the top rack. And suddenly, you’re crying over silverware like it’s a Nicholas Sparks movie. It's the Empty Dishwasher Syndrome

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Save This for When the Doubt Creeps In:

By: Nichole Banks Published on: 07/08/2025

Save This for When the Doubt Creeps In is your pocket-sized pep talk—a reminder that you’re stronger, wiser, and far more capable than the voice of fear would have you believe. Filled with raw truth, encouragement, and a wink of humor, it’s the nudge you’ll need to quiet the inner critic and step boldly back into your power.

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