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Stop Chasing: What’s Meant for You Won’t Run Away

By: Nichole Banks Published on: 25/10/2025

After divorce, it’s easy to chase what’s already walking away—closure, validation, or one last chance. But chasing doesn’t heal you, it drains you. In this post, Nichole shares the truth about letting go, finding peace, and learning that what’s meant for you will never need convincing to stay.

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Confidence Looks Good on You—Even If You’re Rocking Sweatpants

By: Nichole Banks Published on: 10/10/2025

After divorce, confidence can feel like a distant memory—but it’s not gone, it’s just waiting for you to claim it back. In this empowering post, Nichole shares real talk, humor, and five simple ways to rebuild your confidence from the inside out. Because confidence isn’t about being perfect—it’s about showing up as you and knowing that’s enough. 💋

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Healing Out Loud: Breaking the Silence That Almost Broke You

By: Nichole Banks Published on: 02/10/2025

ilence feels safe after divorce—but it doesn’t heal you. It buries you. And eventually? It breaks you. In this raw and real article, Nichole opens up about the quiet pain of pretending to be “fine,” why we stay silent, and how speaking your truth out loud can be the medicine you didn’t know you needed. Expect messy confessions, sassy girlfriend wisdom, and practical steps to finally let the weight off your chest.

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Who Get's The Friends?

By: Nichole Banks Published on: 26/09/2025

Divorce doesn’t just split assets—it splits friendships, too. From awkward invites to “friend custody,” this post dives into the social fallout no one talks about and how to build a circle that truly feels like home again.

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