Your Comeback Starts Here
Healing. Heartache. Happiness After Divorce.
Your next chapter starts with clarity — not guesswork.
You’ve been through a lot, girl. The heartbreak. The healing. The late-night overthinking. The “am I ready?” moments.
This quiz cuts through all of that and gives you a clear answer:
Where is your heart right now — and what should your next step be?
👉 Take the Quiz (Free)
“Your comeback begins the moment you choose yourself.” — Nichole Banks
What you’ll learn in 60 seconds:
Whether you’re emotionally ready for new love
What patterns are still blocking you
Your exact next steps (healing, boundaries, or dating)
A personalized plan for your second act
How to move forward with confidence — not confusion
Find Out If You’re Truly Ready to Love Again After Divorce
Instant results. Zero pressure. Just clarity.
More Abundance
Not just in your bank account — but in your self-worth. You’ll stop giving energy to what drains you and start attracting peace, opportunities, and people who match your value.
More Freedom
Freedom to say no without guilt. Freedom to choose your peace over their chaos. Freedom to wake up excited about your life again.
More Happiness
Not the “pretend I’m fine” kind — the real, quiet, deep joy that comes from knowing you’re exactly where you’re meant to be.
How to Navigate Heartache, Healing & Love After Divorce
Available January 6, 2026
Your honest, compassionate guide to rebuilding your life after heartbreak.
Kindle, Paperback and Audible
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Your 30-Day Comeback Plan Starts Here
Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure who you are after divorce?
30-Day Comeback Plan helps you reconnect with your future — one intentional day at a time.
“Tiny steps create big change.”
— Nichole Banks
Inside, you’ll get:
daily mindset prompts
emotional reset tools
clarity-building exercises
gentle confidence boosters
routines that bring your peace back
small shifts that create BIG change
This isn’t busywork.
This is your soft landing after everything life has thrown at you.
“Instant download. No overwhelm. Just one simple step each day.”
“Not sure how to move forward after divorce? Here are the four struggles I help women overcome — starting with you.”
Because healing after divorce isn’t one-dimensional — and neither are you.
Loneliness
Divorce can feel isolating. I help you reconnect with yourself, rebuild your joy, and feel whole again.
Boundaries
If you’ve spent years putting everyone else first, I show you how to set healthy limits without guilt or fear.
Dating
Modern dating is confusing. I teach you how to date with clarity, confidence, and standards — no more repeating old patterns.
Confidence
Divorce shakes your self-worth. I help you rebuild your identity, trust yourself again, and step into your second act with power.
You're in the right place! I want you to Feel Seen, Heard, and Supported.
I’ve Been There (twice!!) – Now, Let’s Rebuild Together!
Hello, I'M NICHOLE.
— twice divorced, wildly happy, and living proof that your second act can be your best act.
I help women 40+ heal their hearts, rebuild their confidence, and find love again (without losing themselves this time). Through my book, podcast, courses, and coaching, I teach you how to rise stronger, clearer, and more grounded than you’ve ever been.
Because divorce isn’t the end — it’s your reset.
💫 Ready to hear how I went from heartbreak to happiness?
Boundaries 101: Protect Your Time, Energy & Relationships
Your comeback begins with clarity.
You’ve spent years bending, stretching, explaining, apologizing, and over-functioning. That ends here.
This course includes:
stop people-pleasing
communicate your needs clearly and calmly
protect your energy from draining relationships
navigate your ex without emotional collapse
date with confidence and standards
trust yourself again
Boundary Mapping Workbook
Real-Life Scripts & Scenarios for Difficult Conversations
Guided Visualization: The Confident “No”
When you master boundaries, you master your life.
Enrollment opens soon. Get on the waitlist to receive early access, founding-member pricing, and exclusive bonuses.
How to Navigate Heartache, Healing & Love After Divorce
Your healing roadmap — from heartbreak to hope.
This powerful program is your first step after divorce. If you feel lost, stuck, overwhelmed, lonely, embarrassed, angry, or unsure what comes next… this course will become your lifeline.
You’ll learn how to:
regulate your emotions without spiraling
stop the shame + self-blame cycle
rebuild your identity and confidence
create emotional safety within yourself
process grief in a healthy, empowering way
open your heart again with clarity — not fear
This is the foundation every divorced woman needs.
Love Is in the Air: Navigating Modern Dating After Divorce
Dating doesn’t have to be awful — I promise.
Dating after divorce is a whole new world. Apps, attachment styles, breadcrumbing, ghosting, standards, boundaries… it can feel like chaos.
This course gives you:
dating clarity and confidence
emotional safety tools
red flag vs. green flag decoding
texting + communication scripts
the “Standards, Not Expectations” framework
how to choose emotionally available partners
how to date without losing yourself ever again
If you’ve ever said “I don’t want to repeat my last relationship,” this course is for you.
How to Gain Confidence, that will change your life.
Confidence Looks Good on You
Your instant confidence reset — in under one hour.
This mini-course is the perfect add-on for women who feel:
insecure after divorce
unsure of who they are now
afraid to be seen again
embarrassed about starting over
disconnected from their own power
It’s short, powerful, and designed to create FAST emotional wins.
This COURSE includes:
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I believe any woman can rebuild her life after divorce — with confidence, peace, and purpose guiding the way.
Waking up excited about your day, feeling at home in your own skin, and finally trusting your heart again isn’t just a dream. My courses and coaching are designed to show you exactly how to make that your reality — one brave step at a time.
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What Women Are Saying
Real stories of healing, confidence, and second chances.
“Nichole has this incredible mix of compassion and straight talk that gets results. She helped me process the pain of my divorce, rediscover my worth, and create a vision for my next chapter. I finally feel like the woman I was meant to be.”
— Angela D., 53 | Texas
“Listening to The Nichole Banks Podcast was the first time I didn’t feel alone after my divorce. Her coaching helped me take those baby steps toward loving myself again. Nichole’s like the best friend who tells you the truth — but with a glass of wine in hand.”
— Tara B., 44 | Colorado
“I started coaching with Nichole after hearing her podcast, and wow — she got me. She helped me rediscover my confidence and finally stop second-guessing everything. Now, I’m setting goals, dating again, and actually excited for the future.”
— Melissa R., 51 | Arizona
🎙️THE NICHOLE BANKS PODCAST
Real talk for women ready to heal, rebuild, and rise after divorce. Expect laughter, inspiration, and those “oh-my-gosh-that’s-me” moments every week.
