The Nichole Banks Blog: Healing, Heartache & New Beginnings

Holiday Boundaries You’re Allowed to Set

Holiday Boundaries You’re Allowed to Set

A warm, honest guide to the holiday boundaries every woman deserves—especially after divorce. Discover how to protect your peace, set guilt-free limits, and create a season that actually feels good. P... ...more

Choices ,Self Improvement Boundaries Cheating Self Love HealingHeartache Divorce Dating &Change

November 23, 20258 min read

The First Holiday Without Us

The First Holiday Without Us

Navigating your first holiday after divorce is heavy. This blog offers comfort, connection, and new traditions to help you heal gently through the season. Blog by Divorce Recovery Coach, Nichole Banks... ...more

Choices ,Self Improvement Boundaries Cheating Self Love HealingHeartache Divorce Dating &Change

November 23, 20257 min read

"Did I screw this up?"

"Did I screw this up?"

Feeling guilty after divorce? Discover why guilt shows up, how to forgive yourself, and start healing with Nichole Banks’ empowering guide. Blog by Divorce Recovery Coach, Nichole Banks. ...more

Choices ,Self Improvement Boundaries Cheating Self Love HealingHeartache Divorce Dating &Change

November 12, 20257 min read

The Soft Life After the Hard Years: Why Peace Is the New Power

The Soft Life After the Hard Years: Why Peace Is the New Power

“Discover the soft life after divorce—where peace replaces pressure and healing becomes your new power. Learn to rest, reset, and reclaim you.” Blog by Divorce Recovery Coach, Nichole Banks. ...more

Choices ,Self Improvement Boundaries Cheating Self Love HealingHeartache Divorce Dating &Change

November 03, 20255 min read

Stop Chasing: What’s Meant for You Won’t Run Away

Stop Chasing: What’s Meant for You Won’t Run Away

After divorce, it’s easy to chase what’s already walking away—closure, validation, or one last chance. But chasing doesn’t heal you, it drains you. In this post, Nichole shares the truth about letting... ...more

Choices ,Self Improvement Boundaries Cheating Self Love HealingHeartache Divorce Dating &Change

October 25, 20256 min read

Confidence Looks Good on You—Even If You’re Rocking Sweatpants

Confidence Looks Good on You—Even If You’re Rocking Sweatpants

After divorce, confidence can feel like a distant memory—but it’s not gone, it’s just waiting for you to claim it back. In this empowering post, Nichole shares real talk, humor, and five simple ways t... ...more

Choices ,Self Improvement Boundaries Cheating Self Love HealingHeartache Divorce Dating &Change

October 10, 20255 min read

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